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If I kept this up I’d always be fighting an uphill battle against an enemy that I created. And it’s taken me some time to learn how to get true respect, to have people in your life who are honored to the underdog in every situation. But there’s a good and healthy way to wage war, and a destructive way.One of our greatest flaws as humans, and especially men, is that we’re constantly looking for the approval of others, be it our parents, our friends, our peers, our coaches. Think about it…Your happiness is based upon your For one, you don’t truly know how they see you. Yet, your happiness is completely contingent on what they think.Second, they don’t know your whole story, so their perception of you can never truly be accurate. So, you buy nice cars, clothes, and accessories, just to impress people so you can feel respected.You make decisions about your own life based on what you think others will think.If you want to be a man that’s truly respected, you have to stop living to respect.You have to march to your own tune, to the beat of your own drum.It took 4 punches to make a mess of the biggest guy’s face. In that fight I didn’t throw the first punch, which only added to the chip on my shoulder when I was suspended and the other kid wasn’t. I had blood covering my hands; blood that wasn’t my own.
What to do: Get in the practice of doing what you say you’re going to do. If you’re still lacking in this area, or you want to improve, take the Power Howse Challege, and build the body that will help you be the man you want to be. I’d rather help people become stronger, not weaker and more dependent on others for safety and meaning. It’s when you can see things as they truly are, without your own perceptions, that you can then work on fixing them and improving them.
It helped me wake up at 5 am every morning to get to my high school early to practice basketball.